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{dede:field name='description'}一个单亲妈妈、一位平凡的职业女性，不过是将她与儿子的口水话结集起来，居然也能出书！近日，一本关于亲子教育的图书《散妈的教子智慧》出版，重庆晚报记者获悉，该书全篇用四川话写作，作者是一位重庆单亲母亲严媛（笔名）。在书中，严媛不避讳和儿子谈性{/dede:field}
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	一个单亲妈妈、一位平凡的职业女性，不过是将她与儿子的口水话结集起来，居然也能出书！近日，一本关于亲子教育的图书《散妈的教子智慧》出版，重庆晚报记者获悉，该书全篇用四川话写作，作者是一位重庆单亲母亲严媛（笔名）。在书中，严媛不避讳和儿子谈性说爱，关于责任、关于早恋，都一一道来。昨日，重庆晚报记者电话采访了她。</p>
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	<strong style="padding-bottom: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-right: 0px">写口水帖走红网络</strong></p>
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	据了解，严媛38岁，家住渝中区，现在一家医疗公司工作。儿子5岁时，严媛就与丈夫离婚，现在孩子13岁。谈到出书的过程，严媛笑说，主要是因为她发现很多家庭都遭遇了孩子教育的困惑，而她却觉得教育孩子一点不困难，因为，他一直把儿子当成自己的朋友。于是，她就将生活中与儿子的对白，写成帖子发在了天涯网上，没想到帖子迅速走红。</p>
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	<strong style="padding-bottom: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-right: 0px">受邀出书以为遭遇骗子</strong></p>
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	因为走红网络，出版社找到严媛希望她能出书，但没有任何出版经历的严媛却以为出版社的工作人员是骗子。&ldquo;我最开始很惊讶，后来很怀疑，再后来是本能地拒绝。因为我很享受现在宁静的生活，但出了书，可能会带来一系列的问题。后来出版社的工作人员动员了我很久，他们说，以后我儿子的小孩可以看到奶奶写的书，我就心动了。&rdquo;</p>
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	<strong style="padding-bottom: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-right: 0px">儿子嘲笑书不会有人看</strong></p>
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	虽然出了书，严媛直言，生活依旧，且儿子还嘲笑她，认为这些口水话不会有人看。&ldquo;在他眼中，这就是他的生活，没什么大不了。&rdquo;但严媛也承认，因为出了亲子书，周围很多朋友开始向她请教孩子的教育问题，但她只有一句话：&ldquo;娃娃是一个独立的个体。&rdquo;严媛说，今年她儿子已经13岁了，她和儿子正在&ldquo;挑战&rdquo;叛逆期，而她也将把这次&ldquo;口水话&rdquo;记下来，作为自己的纪念。</p>
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	本版稿件由重庆晚报记者 王琼采写</p>
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	<img alt="重庆单亲妈妈出书 用方言写作和儿子谈性说爱" src="/uploads/allimg/c140422/13b1443Z0K20-2U12.jpg" style="border-top: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-bottom: medium none; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin: 0px; border-left: medium none; padding-right: 0px" /></p>
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	<strong style="padding-bottom: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-right: 0px">这些案例</strong></p>
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	<strong style="padding-bottom: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-right: 0px">笑过了可以学经验</strong></p>
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	<strong style="padding-bottom: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-right: 0px">【关于金钱】</strong></p>
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	有一天，儿子回家向妈妈要求买别墅。</p>
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	我：儿啦，买个玩具的别墅随时都要得，买真的别墅，把你老妈卖了都买不回来。</p>
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	儿：哎。那买个车嘛？没得别墅有个车，也好给同学吹撒。</p>
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	我：那同学住的别墅，接他们的宝马车是他们各人买的迈？</p>
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	儿：不是噻，他们爸爸、妈妈的。</p>
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	我：对了哦，下回他们再神气，你就说，我们过20年再来比，比各人买的。</p>
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	散妈这样说：我觉得，人要过得现实，要明白理想很丰满、现实很骨感这个道理，我觉得娃娃生活在现实中，有攀比的心理很正常，关键是家长怎样去引导，如果父母的心态不平衡，娃娃自然会耳濡目染。</p>
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	<strong style="padding-bottom: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-right: 0px">【关于性】</strong></p>
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	孩子四五岁时，在家翻东西，翻箱倒柜将一包卫生巾翻出来。</p>
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	儿：妈妈，这是什么？</p>
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	我：饼干？</p>
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	儿：我撕开了，不是饼干。</p>
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	我：（冷汗）妈妈肚子里有个部件，豆是装小娃娃的，勒个部位有层膜，每个月要脱落一次，你手刮破了要流血，膜脱落也要流血，这个就是垫着用的，免得裤子弄脏了。</p>
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	散妈这样说：我不避讳和孩子谈性， 随着孩子的成长，性教育是很重要的，家长不说，孩子自学更危险。当你不避讳这些问题，孩子也不会好奇了。现在，孩子还会跟我说：&ldquo;同学们经常谈论这些，好奇怪啊。&rdquo;</p>
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	<strong style="padding-bottom: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-right: 0px">【关于早恋】</strong></p>
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	有一天，儿子就告诉我，他老是想多看女生一眼，还有女生给纸条&hellip;&hellip;</p>
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	儿：老娘，想多看女生一眼是不是耍朋友啊？</p>
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	母：不算，莫说看了一眼，就是拉了手都不算。</p>
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	儿：那心里一天就想见这女生是怎么回事啊？</p>
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	母：恭喜少爷，你长大了，取向还很正常。你觉得该怎么办呢？</p>
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	儿：现在不能想，先把小学阶段的基础打牢，老师说这样上了初中会轻松些。</p>
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	母：人家成绩很好，你现在的成绩还有各方面的表现还不够，如果是这样的话，人家会挺瞧不起你的，也不会把你放在眼里。所以要坚持搞好你自己的学习，养成良好的品德及行为习惯。</p>
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	散妈这样说：我们也曾经历过早恋，所以能理解孩子这种情愫，家长只要好好引导，早恋不是洪水猛兽。</p>
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	<strong style="padding-bottom: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-right: 0px">散妈观点：</strong></p>
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	●许多家长希望孩子有礼貌，见到熟人时，让孩子主动打招呼。这种做法，我是不赞成的，因为每个孩子都有自己的个性，有些活泼有些腼腆，不叫人难道就代表没有礼貌了吗？</p>
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	●孩子的成绩问题是家长一个很大的困扰，但我觉得孩子在中学前的主要任务应该是玩，中学后要抓学习，但应该想办法让孩子自己认识到学习的重要性，而不是逼迫他去学习。因为相比分数，培养孩子的责任感才是最重要的。</p>
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	●孩子的事情一定要让他学会自己做，我儿子曾经发烧，但我都让他自己去看病，还有人在背后说我是后妈，其实当时，我也心痛，但一定要让孩子明白，有些事情，是他自己必须面对的，家长不能永远在你身边。</p>
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	●儿子幼儿园包括上学后在他未能正确认识什么是离婚时，学校任何需要父母一起出席的亲子活动必须一起参加。</p>
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	<strong style="padding-bottom: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-right: 0px">名词解释</strong></p>
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	<strong style="padding-bottom: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-right: 0px">散妈</strong></p>
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	指那类既有钱又有闲的妈妈。她们既搞懂了社会、又明白了人生。在教育方式上，她们综合了自己的人生经验，立足于培养孩子好的心态。</p>{/dede:field}
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